-I Avoid online hits, and any hits less then 2 turns, You should too.
Follow your policies and I'll follow mine. Don't like communication? or you don't want to respond to my attempt at diplomacy? You'll get sabbed, simple.
If I mess up or if you have a problem with me? Let's sort it out, I expect the same in return. No need for drastic measures. Mistakes happen, we're all human.
Happy hunting! ;P